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Thomas
Platinum Member
Last active: 1 month ago

53 Berkeley, California, United States

Male / Divorced / ID: 2053619

Seeking Female 50 - 65 living in Japan For: Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: 1 month ago

Overview

Thomas

He's Looking For

Education:

PhD or Doctorate
High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - sometimes live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink, Do drink, Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Occasionally smoke

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Executive / Management / HR
Any

Member Overview

Life is too short to not enjoy every beautiful moment that comes along, and drama is truly unnecessary. I lived in Munich, Berkeley, Lyon, Seoul, Hong Kong, San Francisco, and Ottawa. Somehow people are the same everywhere, give respect, be open, express curiosity, and things will usually fall in pl...
Life is too short to not enjoy every beautiful moment that comes along, and drama is truly unnecessary. I lived in Munich, Berkeley, Lyon, Seoul, Hong Kong, San Francisco, and Ottawa. Somehow people are the same everywhere, give respect, be open, express curiosity, and things will usually fall in place. I love balance in life, love intensity and passion, sometimes being mellow. And like to explore new things. Being in tune with my emotions is very important to me. Loving and giving are essential features of life. I like to laugh, humor is truly underrated when it comes to resolving tensions or issues. I am ambitious, like to work hard when encountering a real challenge. But also love spending time with my loved ones and family, enjoying the company of my loved ones. I received my doctorate from UC Berkeley with distinction, worked as an engineer before, did management consulting at McKinsey & Company in Seoul, Hong Kong and San Francisco. The Harvard Study of Adult Development, one of the most comprehensive longitudinal studies in history (it started about ~50+ years), led by Harvard Psychiatrist Robert Waldinger, tries to find an answer to the question “what makes a successful and happy life”. I was struck by the fact that being in a loving, deep, and meaningful relationship is the better predictor for health (mentally and physically) and happiness as compared to triglycerides, cholesterol or any other biomarker. We all need loving, good and meaningful relationships to stay healthy and feel happiness. I grew up in Germany and France, and speak English, French and German fluently and Korean and Mandarin at a medium level. I would be happy to learn Japanese so we can better communicate. And also improve my Mandarin, if I get some help.
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Seeking

I am looking for a female that is willing to engage in serious and loving relationship (e.g marriage) and eventually would like to move to California and have children with me. Chemistry is wonderful, when people gravitate towards each other, everything is possible. The woman should have a kind...
I am looking for a female that is willing to engage in serious and loving relationship (e.g marriage) and eventually would like to move to California and have children with me. Chemistry is wonderful, when people gravitate towards each other, everything is possible. The woman should have a kind and gentle heart (I believe that I can offer the same). I like a woman that can laugh with me and does not take life always too serious. It would be nice (but not necessary) if the person likes to workout and eat healthy food. I have two children, but would love to have children with that person that I can connect and engage with on a serious and loving level. Physicality is wonderful way to express your feelings and love, if it happens in a loving, trusting and safe relationship. If any of the above is appealing to you, please contact me. Thank you for reading my profile - I look forward to hearing from you. Sincerely, Thomas
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More About Me

Thomas

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
53
50 - 65
Lives in:
Berkeley, California, United States
Japan
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Any
Hair length:
Short
Any
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Green
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
6'0" (183 cm)
5'0" (153 cm) - 5'11" (181 cm)
Weight:
84 kg (185 lb)
Any
Body style:
Athletic
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Asian
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
My Smile
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink, Do drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
Yes - sometimes live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
Any
Oldest child:
11
Any
Youngest child:
7
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Executive / Management / HR
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
$240,001 - $600,000 USD
Any
Home type:
Town house
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Germany
Japan
Education:
PhD or Doctorate
High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English,French,Chinese (Mandarin),German
English, Japanese
English ability:
Fluent
Fluent, Very Good, Good, Some
Japanese ability:
None
Any
Religion:
Christian
Any
Chinese sign:
Snake
Any
Star sign:
Gemini
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Other, Dancing, Dining Out, Movies / Cinema, Philosophy / Spirituality, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, Video / Online Games

Food:

California-Fusion, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Korean, Mediterranean, Vegan, Vietnamese

Music:

Other, Classical / Opera, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Pop, R'n'B / Hip Hop

Sport:

Other, Athletics, Cycling, Martial Arts, Swimming

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Balde Runner

Favorite Book:

The Sea-Wolf from Jack London

Favorite Food:

Japanese, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese and Vegan

Favorite Music:

I like a broad spectrum of music

Dress Style:

I like being dressed professional (suit and shirt) or laid back (when I spend time with friends and family)

Humor:

I love to laugh and see people smile. Sometimes sarcastic

Hobbies & Interests:

Spending time with loved ones, reading, watching movies, dining, work-outs, cycling, jiu jitsu

Travelled:

Japan, Korea, China, France, Italy, Germany, Canada, US, Spain

Cultural Adaption:

I love Japanese and Chinese culture and fully adapt to it.

Romance:

Take my partner to a nice resort and treat her very well for two days (spa, dining, spending time together, go to the pool)

Personality:

I am really interested how people are really doing - I like to have good connections and good relationships with people around me

My Perfect Match is:

A partner with a kind, gentle and loving heart. A partner that I have chemistry with. A partner that is open to life and communication and having children with me

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