Doctor/California looking for marriage/children

Thomas (53) 

Male / Divorced / ID: 2053619
Berkeley, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 35 living in Japan
For: Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: PhD or Doctorate
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home
Drink: Don't drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian
Occupation: Executive / Management / HR

Life is too short to not enjoy every beautiful moment that comes along, and drama is truly unnecessary. I lived in Munich, Berkeley, Lyon, Seoul, Hong Kong, San Francisco, and Ottawa. Somehow people are the same everywhere, give respect, be open, express curiosity, and things will usually fall in pl...read more >>

Life is too short to not enjoy every beautiful moment that comes along, and drama is truly unnecessary. I lived in Munich, Berkeley, Lyon, Seoul, Hong Kong, San Francisco, and Ottawa. Somehow people are the same everywhere, give respect, be open, express curiosity, and things will usually fall in place. I love balance in life, love intensity and passion, sometimes being mellow. And like to explore new things. Being in tune with my emotions is very important to me. Loving and giving are essential features of life. I like to laugh, humor is truly underrated when it comes to resolving tensions or issues. I am ambitious, like to work hard when encountering a real challenge. But also love spending time with my loved ones and family, enjoying the company of my loved ones. I received my doctorate from UC Berkeley with distinction, worked as an engineer before, did management consulting at McKinsey & Company in Seoul, Hong Kong and San Francisco. The Harvard Study of Adult Development, one of the most comprehensive longitudinal studies in history (it started about ~50+ years), led by Harvard Psychiatrist Robert Waldinger, tries to find an answer to the question “what makes a successful and happy life”. I was struck by the fact that being in a loving, deep, and meaningful relationship is the better predictor for health (mentally and physically) and happiness as compared to triglycerides, cholesterol or any other biomarker. We all need loving, good and meaningful relationships to stay healthy and feel happiness. I grew up in Germany and France, and speak English, French and German fluently and Korean and Mandarin at a medium level. I would be happy to learn Japanese so we can better communicate. And also improve my Mandarin, if I get some help.

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About Thomas

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 53 22 - 35
Lives in: Berkeley, California, United States Japan
Relocate: Not sure about relocating Any
Appearance 
Hair color: Brown Any
Hair length: Short Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Green Any
Eye wear: Glasses Any
Height: 6'0" (183 cm) 4'10" (148 cm) - 5'8" (173 cm)
Weight: 84 kg (185 lb) Any
Body style: Athletic Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Asian
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: My Smile Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Attractive Very attractive, Attractive
Lifestyle 
Drink: Don't drink Don't drink, Do drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Occasionally smoke
Marital Status: Divorced Any
Have children: Yes - sometimes live at home Any
Number of children: 2 Any
Oldest child: 11 Any
Youngest child: 7 Any
Want (more) children: Yes Any
Have pets: No Pets Any
Occupation: Executive / Management / HR Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: $240,001 - $600,000 USD Any
Home type: Town house Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: Germany Japan
Education: PhD or Doctorate High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken: English,French,Chinese (Mandarin),German English, Japanese
English ability: Fluent Fluent, Very Good, Good, Some
Japanese ability: None Any
Religion: Christian Any
Chinese sign: Snake Any
Star sign: Gemini Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Other, Dancing, Dining Out, Movies / Cinema, Philosophy / Spirituality, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, Video / Online Games
Food: California-Fusion, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Korean, Mediterranean, Vegan, Vietnamese
Music: Other, Classical / Opera, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Pop, R'n'B / Hip Hop
Sport: Other, Athletics, Cycling, Martial Arts, Swimming

I am looking for a female that is willing to engage in serious and loving relationship (e.g marriage) and eventually would like to move to California and have children with me. Chemistry is wonderful, when people gravitate towards each other, everything is possible. The woman should have a kind...read more >>

I am looking for a female that is willing to engage in serious and loving relationship (e.g marriage) and eventually would like to move to California and have children with me. Chemistry is wonderful, when people gravitate towards each other, everything is possible. The woman should have a kind and gentle heart (I believe that I can offer the same). I like a woman that can laugh with me and does not take life always too serious. It would be nice (but not necessary) if the person likes to workout and eat healthy food. I have two children, but would love to have children with that person that I can connect and engage with on a serious and loving level. Physicality is wonderful way to express your feelings and love, if it happens in a loving, trusting and safe relationship. If any of the above is appealing to you, please contact me. Thank you for reading my profile - I look forward to hearing from you. Sincerely, Thomas

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