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Life is meant to feel good

James
Standard Member
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Last active: 1 week ago

45 Conroe, Texas, United States

Male / Single / ID: 3290920

Seeking Female 21 - 70 For: Penpal, Friendship, Long Term Relationship

Last active: 1 week ago

Overview

James

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Any

Have children:

No
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Drink:

Occasionally drink
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Smoke:

Don't smoke
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Religion:

Other
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Occupation:

IT / Communications
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Member Overview

Life is meant to feel good, full of friendship, joy, exploration, adventure. Sometimes, if one is so fortunate, we find love. Then again, that which is found, can be lost. Heartbreak is so very difficult, and love never really disappears. But courage means we keep living and trying to find our...
Life is meant to feel good, full of friendship, joy, exploration, adventure. Sometimes, if one is so fortunate, we find love. Then again, that which is found, can be lost. Heartbreak is so very difficult, and love never really disappears. But courage means we keep living and trying to find our people, our person and to give love a chance. So, should we become friends, we will definitely stay friends for awhile, though deep down I my unexpressed desire for love, respect and trust will remain. The person who wins my heart, though it take time, will be someone very special. I am not sure if I ever will find that person, but I am willing to forge ahead and find them, because I know they are looking for me too. Cool Facts: • Reiki Master, QiGong/Meditation Practice, Combat Arts • College/University Degrees - Mathematics, Physics/Science, Engineering, Info Sys, Computer Science, Business Administration • I would seem perfectly "normal" if you struck a conversation with me until you dug deeper to get to know me. If you aren’t curious, you won’t get to the best parts of me • Polyglot, linguistics is a hobby of mine. I can say "butterfly" in 10 languages and I can write it in Chinese & Japanese as well. Currently focused on speaking Spanish at a diplomatic level and Korean at an intermediate level, although there was a time I could speak Japanese & Chinese (and still can write some characters as well) • Enjoy museums, history and impressionistic art (Van Gogh, etc.), hungry to learn, especially about people • Anime lover • Authors: Ayn Rand & Vonnegut • Clothing Store: Saks 5th Ave/Dillards Turn Offs/Not Cool: Bad habits People who prey on the weak Immaturity Those who pretend to be something they are not Cheating Narcissism Self-centerdness Unloyal Not caring Closed off from others and not willing to open up
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Seeking

Some basics for a good time with Doc. "The Checklist" Communication: You need to be willing to chat with me. I am perfectly ok if your English is bad, I will find a way to communicate with you, even if I have to learn your language sufficiently to accomplish it - part of what I do as an amate...
Some basics for a good time with Doc. "The Checklist" Communication: You need to be willing to chat with me. I am perfectly ok if your English is bad, I will find a way to communicate with you, even if I have to learn your language sufficiently to accomplish it - part of what I do as an amateur linguist. That's part of the fun. So, no excuses for not chatting. Please don't stay quiet forever. Reach out. I am a busy man but I will get back. Promise. If you really want my attention, let's schedule a time for a video chat. I will make the time, but if you don't video chat for awhile, I will never know who you are. And after video chatting, doing text chat is fine, but we have the technology and I am going to want to see you and connect! Show yourselves! It's OK. I am a super nice guy (well, most of the time anyways) Joyful: Do you embrace the joy of life? Resilient: When you become angry or worried, do you have the strength to turn around and tell yourself "It will be ok" and choose joy and courage instead? Gratitude: Are you grateful for waking up in the morning, the sun shining despite clouds? Loyalty: When someone loves on you, do you love them back? Can you be loyal to someone who will be your champion, and will you be their hero? Genuine: Are you genuinely a kind and gentle soul that can tell a partner, "I didn't like that, we need to talk" and then can figure out how to make each other happy? Or do you pretend to smile even though deep inside, your heart is breaking and you don't share your feelings or trust another person enough to share what you feel or express what you want. Or worse, do you become angry and abusive, blaming others for your own issues. You must be able to be genuine or there will never be trust. Are you kind to yourself and others? Purpose: I don't care if you are a diplomat, ambassador, barista, waitress, wealthy or not. Do you invest yourself in your work and spread light to others around you? Do you dedicate yourself to being the best even when nobody is looking? Curiosity: When you think of something, or look at what most would find ordinary, do you find the extraordinary in it? Do you wish to explore the world and that and those around you? Together: Whatever we do, we do it together as much as possible. Or, do you wish to be alone? (why are you here on this site, then???) I am a pretty good cook, and I would enjoy having a partner to assist or to lead in preparing a meal. Do you enjoy the finer things in life? I also like to take classes/learn language with a partner as well (and yes, Netflix/Hulu). When the monster of life, and the nasty evil dragons have us cornered - will you run and leave me alone in my battle or do we fight together and emerge victorious? Responsible: I like money but I don't love it. I work and earn my money, but it is not my master. So, are you someone who has learned or is learning to be responsible with being organized, paying your bills, holding a job/career/business and do you have your life in order?
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More About Me

James

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
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45
21 - 70
Lives in:
Conroe, Texas, United States
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Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
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Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
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Eye color:
Brown
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Height:
6'0" (183 cm)
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Weight:
91 kg (200 lb)
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Body style:
Athletic
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Ethnicity:
Mixed
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Body art:
None
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Appearance:
Very attractive
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Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
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Smoke:
Don't smoke
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Marital Status:
Single
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Have children:
No
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Number of children:
N/A
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Oldest child:
N/A
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Youngest child:
N/A
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Want (more) children:
Not Sure
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Have pets:
No Pets
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Occupation:
IT / Communications
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Employment status:
Full Time
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Income:
$240,001 - $600,000 USD
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Living situation:
Live Alone
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Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Verified
United States
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Education:
Masters Degree
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Languages spoken:
English,French,Japanese,Korean,Spanish
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English ability:
Fluent
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Japanese ability:
Some
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Religion:
Other
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Chinese sign:
Hare
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Star sign:
Sagittarius
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Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Beach / Parks, Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Education, Gardening / Landscaping, Investing / Finance, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Science and Technology, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Volunteering, Wine Tasting, Writing

Sport:

American Football, Auto Racing, Bodybuilding, Boxing, Figure Skating, Gym / Weight Training, Gymnastics, Hunting / Shooting, Jogging / Running, Martial Arts, Mountain / Rock Climbing, Pool / Billards, Rowing, Skiing / Snowboarding, Swimming, Volleyball, Walking, Wrestling, Yoga / Pilates

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Gran Torino

Favorite Book:

Favorite authors: Ayn Rand, Kurt Vonnegut

Favorite Food:

Memorable

Favorite Music:

Memorable

Dress Style:

I dress for the occasion and I am very neat

Humor:

All I know is that people laugh and have a good time around me.

Hobbies & Interests:

Linguistics, Study, Public Policy

Travelled:

Asia & North America. Want to see more before I move on to Europe & South America.

Cultural Adaption:

I adapt well and find myself eager and curious to learn more about them and how they see the world.

Romance:

I look back on some of my best dates. Outing to a beautiful location. I cook something very nice and pack it to go. Picnic or something similar. We talk and open up to each other, we learn about each other. Maybe we kiss. Maybe we make love. But the most important connection happens within the heart and mind - and it is a connection that some cannot handle.

Personality:

Very open to people, sometimes, almost too open. I say that, because I let my guard down and need my friends at times to remind me how heartbroken I can become.

My Perfect Match is:

If I knew that, I wouldn't be here. And when I think I have found it, I get heartbroken and try again. I guess I am pretty hopeless that way. But would rather keep failing than give up on life or love.

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