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James
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

48 Parsippany, New Jersey, United States

Male / Separated / ID: 506721

Seeking Female 18 - 38 living in Japan For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

James

He's Looking For

Education:

Vocational College
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
No

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Medical / Dental / Veterinary
Any

Member Overview

My interests include but are not limited to the following: God, Learning, Reading, Deep Conversations, Spirituality, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual teachings, Law of Attraction, Meditation, Yoga, Tantra, Kissing, Passion, Sex, Cuddling, Martial Arts, Aikido, Jujutsu, Taijiquan, Baguazhang, Xingyiquan,...
My interests include but are not limited to the following: God, Learning, Reading, Deep Conversations, Spirituality, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual teachings, Law of Attraction, Meditation, Yoga, Tantra, Kissing, Passion, Sex, Cuddling, Martial Arts, Aikido, Jujutsu, Taijiquan, Baguazhang, Xingyiquan, Bible, Scripture, Religion, Comparative Religion, Metaphysics, Occult, Magick, Politics, Science, Physics, Technology, Medicine, Psychology, Massage, Science Fiction, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, RPG's, Comic Books, All kinds of things, So Many Many things, Too Many things, Everything I am an INTP. Basically what that means, is that I am of the "Knowledge Seeking Personality"; read "geek". As I am something of a geek, this means that I tend to get hyper focused onto things that interest me and I become full of information on the topic that would bore most others to tears or possibly to death or at least to the point of begging for it. I tend to be very even tempered. I very seldom get angry, & raise my voice in anger even less often. I almost never lose control of my behavior or composure. Some have told me that I can seem a little distant or aloof; however, I also have a very passionate an enthusiastic side. I also love to laugh & I find almost everything funny in the right context. I guess that "abstract" & intellectual would be a good way to describe myself. I love a good conversation about the mysteries of the universe, &/or politics &/or religion, &/or science/technology, &/or anything else that interests me and you. Oh, & I can be a major smart-ass, though one day I hope to achieve the esteemed & lofty position of "wise"-ass. As I have already said, we geeks love to learn stuff, usually of a technical nature, about our areas of interest. So, specifically, I am a martial arts geek. If you saw the movie "The Last Dragon", the character "Bruce" Leroy Greene is basically a spoof of the kind of kid that I actually was (with a life that became a great deal more dramatically interesting than mine ever did). I am basically a nice guy, but I can pretend to be otherwise if you insist. Also, I think that I am fun and most likely fun to be around. Give me a chance and I am certain that I can make you laugh. I am certainly non-dramatic, and non-wimpy; and so long as what makes me happy also makes you happy, then I can guarantee that I will live only to make you happy. I am basically kind (my sense of humor can be wicked and sharp though), honest, & loving. I strive to make every action I take come from a place of compassion. I am a gentleman who strives to be polite always (like Albus Dumbledore)...well most of the time anyway. And just so you know, we nice guys all have inner bad boys, we just have them under control rather than the other way around. I like my music heavy but textured. Do you really care which groups I like the most? If you do, you can ask & I will tell you. As for pets, I dont have any; however, I generally prefer dogs. Although, the ones that shed do tend to set off my allergies. I will not be cruel to a cat but I dont really like them much, and I am very allergic to them. This could be overcome with a tremendous amount of house cleaning, keeping up the all the shed hair and dander; but who would want to bother with that? If my profile interests you at all and if you wish to know more (and I hope that you do), then I suspect that I would feel the same about you; so feel free to contact me. I promise I won't bite...well if I do you will either deserve it or you will enjoy it. Here are some fun questions to consider, when thinking about me for a potential long term partner: How would you feel about joining me in the pursuit of my geek interests, i.e. becoming my training partner for life?? And how does having a life partner who would love to give massages to his beloved sound??? Blessings upon you and yours, Jake
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Seeking

I have recently (in Sep 2008 we made it official) become separated, after having gotten married in 1993; & the divorce (which is such a relief & surpisingly drama free) is in process. I am the father of 2 beautiful and bad little girls (born Jan1997 and Dec2002), who are the most precious gifts God ...
I have recently (in Sep 2008 we made it official) become separated, after having gotten married in 1993; & the divorce (which is such a relief & surpisingly drama free) is in process. I am the father of 2 beautiful and bad little girls (born Jan1997 and Dec2002), who are the most precious gifts God could give me. (The baby in the pictures is my youngest nephew.) Now that I am separated and soon to be single, I would also like to start looking for my truly special someone; my soulmate & mind-mate. I am very serious about finding the right woman and only the right woman to marry; so, I wish to take enough time to get to know her(so I am in no rush), to make sure that we could be friends as well as compatible lovers before I get married again. I am looking for a woman who: is not necessarily a perfect physical specimin (as i am not one, at the moment) or anywhere near it, but she must desire to acheive the healthiest and fittest state she can and maintain it (as I do); loves to practice (or is willing to) an exercise regimen with me, and my prefered exercises are martial art and yoga, but I am willing to do other things as well, but I hate running; practices & loves (or is willing to) the martial arts, preferably but not necessarily Aikido (because this is such a big part of my life's path and I want someone who will walk that path with me); practices & loves (or is willing to) dance, preferably belly-dancing, though, ballet, jazz, modern, folk or even gymnastics or cheerleading are all quite acceptable (Ideally I shall find a woman who practices & loves both of these things: martial arts and dance, because nothing is more beautiful to me than a woman who can move skillfully & gracefully); is very spiritual; is an occult practiioner, i.e. magick (or can tolerate my practice); plays RPG's (or can tolerate well, my playing & perhaps even find it endearing); loves to recieve my massages (If she were also a fellow body worker, who would be open to trading real massages with me; then I would know that she was sent directly from heaven.) is very intelligent; is curious, experimental, & loves to learn; is willing to teach me; is willing to learn from me; is willing to learn with me; is passionate; loves to kiss deeply for long periods of time (especially while making love); loves sex (especially with me) and is a compatible lover with me (that is, not one and done) loves my children, just as I shall be able to love hers (I desire to have more children so she should want that as well.); is psychologically healthy, with a broad (& somewhat raunchy) sense of humor & an unreasonably positive attitude; understands the Law of Attraction (LoA); and thus, lives her life on purpose and knows that she knows that she is at the cause of her own life and not at the effect of it.
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More About Me

James

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
48
18 - 38
Lives in:
Parsippany, New Jersey, United States
Japan
Relocate:
Not willing to relocate
Willing to relocate within my country

Appearance

Hair color:
Bald / Shaved
Any
Hair length:
No Answer
Any
Hair type:
No Answer
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Eye wear:
No Answer
Any
Height:
5'8" (173 cm)
No Answer - 5'4" (163 cm)
Weight:
136 kg (299 lb)
No Answer - 63 kg (139 lb)
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
No Answer
N/A
Best feature:
No Answer
Any
Body art:
No Answer
Any
Appearance:
Average
Very attractive, Attractive, Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Separated
Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
No
Number of children:
No Answer
Any
Oldest child:
No Answer
Any
Youngest child:
No Answer
Any
Want (more) children:
Yes
Yes, Not Sure
Have pets:
No Answer
Any
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary
Any
Employment status:
No Answer
Any
Income:
No Answer
Any
Home type:
No Answer
Any
Living situation:
No Answer
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Japan
Education:
Vocational College
Any
Languages spoken:
No Answer
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Fluent
Japanese ability:
Some
Any
Religion:
Christian
Any
Chinese sign:
Pig
Any
Star sign:
Aries
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Camping / Nature, Meditation, News / Politics, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Reading, Science and Technology

Sport:

Martial Arts, Yoga / Pilates

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