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John
Platinum Member
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62
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 37 - 62
Appearance:
Average
Appreciate the simple things...
No need to rush, beautiful things unfold naturally. Take it easy, talk, laugh, live, love. Just be you! I'm a down-to-earth single dad blessed to be sharing life in Tokyo with my younger daughter. Work as a software engineer based in Tokyo. Love the kaleidoscope of big city life but time with others is the ultimate. Tend to avoid big crowded spaces, although for a tasty new restaurant exceptions must be made! 😀 To me it's important to treasure what you have over all that is flashy and new.
osamu
Platinum Member
Verified
53
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 18 - 98
Appearance:
Average
素敵な人を探しています。
I am a Japanese with permanent residence. I work in Las Vegas, but I got a job in Japan and worked there for a year. And Los Angeles has real estate and income. I have been in Japan for one year since March 2023. I then returned to Los Angeles to continue my work. Who wants to move to the United States? Video, music, travel, nature, photography, I am interested in bicycles. I am company owner, photographer, videographer and video jockey. I love nature and the outdoors. I'm looking for someone to live with. I will stay in Japan from March 2023 to Feb 2024.
Marcin
Standard Member
36
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Fukuchiyama, Kyoto, Japan
Seeking:
Female 18 - 32
Appearance:
Average
Big, Warm Teddybear
Office worker (customs), academic teacher, community helper. Religion Historian, researcher of myths and legends. I have always story or two to tell, few hundred places to visit and at least one person next to me missing in this travels. So Yo
tai
Gold Member
Verified
41
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female
Appearance:
Average
Hello!
Japanese born and raised, spent much of my adult life abroad. Now based in Tokyo, working at a publicly listed company. Here for the long run. I stay busy during the week, switching gears between work mode and life mode. At work, I'm focused and strategic. During the weekend, I’m the one cracking dry jokes and laughing at memes way too long. Coffee, books, gym sessions, and deep-tissue massages keep me sane. I value curiosity, emotional depth, and mutual respect—bonus points if you find calm attractive. I’m someone who listens well, thinks deeply, and enjoys balancing seriousness with humor. I keep an open and positive mind, and I appreciate people who do the same. Also, I speak a few languages—always happy to learn more.
Kaoru
Gold Member
Verified
50
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Yokohama, Kanagawa, Japan
Seeking:
Female 23 - 42
Appearance:
Average
Active crafty guy
I am a fun-loving, creative and international traveler. I have lived in North America, Japan and Europe. I’m excited about trying new things and am always open to adventure and thoughtful conversations. I especially love spending time playing sports and hiking with friends. I am looking for a confident, active, social, open and adventurous woman who shares some interests and values who is ready for a serious relationship.
Juan
Standard Member
65
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Yokosuka, Kanagawa, Japan
Seeking:
Female 45 - 73
Appearance:
Average
よろしくお願いします
I am looking for a partner. I am looking for a wife. 私は妻を探しています。 I am single. I do not have not children. Not looking a hook-up or an online chat partner. If you are too far away and we can not meet sometime in the future please do not contact me. I want to be able to meet you in person sometimes. I am looking for someone who I can trust If I find you are telling me things that are not true we are done, finished. If you are under 45 even though I may want to meet you it is probably not going to work out. I live close to Kamakura I hope you are close by. I am interested in Japanese and Japanese culture I have lived in Japan for awhile. In Kyushu, and in Kanagawa It is calm and peaceful here I like it
Errik
Standard Member
41
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Hiroshima, Hiroshima, Japan
Seeking:
Female 20 - 38
Appearance:
Average
Hello
Hi, I'm an Native American(American Indian). I love to have fun. Playing games, going out, camping, movies and such. I'm currently learning Japanese(self teaching) so hopefully I can get better at it soon. I like all kinds of music but my favorites are Rock and Electronic. I can't think of what else to write at the moment. Please message me if you have any questions. =)
Rosh
Standard Member
49
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Nagasaki, Nagasaki, Japan
Seeking:
Female
Appearance:
Average
Looking for my soul mate
NOTE : Since I have a full membership you CAN read my messages even if you don't have a full membership. By heritage I am Sri Lankan but grew up in the US and UK, so I think I have a mixed personality (conservative but with a tad openness). I am laid back, ambitious and creative. I love to cook, take long walks and drives and I am crazy about cars and dogs. I like to listen to jazz music and swing dance and if I am in the right mood even love Salsa dancing :) I am actually based in Fukuoka for work.When I am in Fukuoka I spend half my time in Nagasaki city :) Because of work I have to travel a lot and live in many places, so I hope my life partner loves to travel.
剛士
Standard Member
45
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Ōsaka, Osaka, Japan
Seeking:
Female 21 - 37
Appearance:
Average
Hello
My name is takeshi and I am a web director in govt I have been living in Osaka since I was 38 born,for years. . I'm asking for a serious relationship and I'm friendly as well as open-mind person and I like adventurous travel, I want to travel at least twice in a year and ideally I would like to build the relationship step by step, even if I wanna get married and so I get along with each other, then I hope that I and the partner could understand deeply with sturdy compassion .
Holger
Standard Member
51
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 30 - 55
Appearance:
Average
[Fill in here something funny]
*** If you are interested in a talk, just leave a short hello or hit the ♥ button ... I will not contact you without one of this two, even if you have visited my profile :) *** don't really know, what to tell here. I am passionate about history, culture and design, but also enjoy just hanging around with friends, watch a movie or playing a game. And top of all: I love to communicate - in every possible way and I try to find something new, something exciting, something to learn in every day. But the easiest way to find out more about me is asking :) Oh, and of course: If I see a Kimono, I fall in Love instinctly. Every time ^^
bourton
Standard Member
45
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Kawasaki, Kanagawa, Japan
Seeking:
Female 25 - 45
Appearance:
Average
Nice to meet you!
Hi there! I am a Japanese, who is looking for a lifelong partner. I recently realized that if I want to have a child, I don't have so much time, and I decided to look into this website to find someone to marry. my mbti is inmp, and as it might suggest, I am rather quiet and indoor person who likes to study and listen to jpop/kpop idols, but I also enjoy playing sports (baseball and tennis) and going for a travel from time to time. I have lived in the US, the Netherlands, and Israel and I might not be a typical Japanese," which I don't know in a good way or bad way. likes: Japanese idols(Hello! Project, Physics, Environmental activities and economics, vegan diet(although I am not a strict vegan but I eat relatively less meat), studying Korean and Hebrew, cats
John
Standard Member
75
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Nagoya, Aichi, Japan
Seeking:
Female 35 - 50
Appearance:
Average
YOU MUST MUST BE ATTRACTIVE 38 TO 50 YEARS OLD
I AM ENGLISH FROM LONDON AND I AM LIVING IN JAPAN. I AM AN ENGLISH LANGUAGE TEACHER, DIVORCED AND I LIVE ON MY OWN. I AM LOOKING FOR AN HONEST AND ATTRACTIVE LADY 38 TO 48 BUT MUSN'T BE OVER 50 UNLESS YOU ARE VERY ATTRACTIVE. PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME AND ASK ME ANY QUESTIONS WHICH I WOULD BE HAPPY TO ANSWER.
David
Standard Member
Verified
54
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Iwakuni, Yamaguchi, Japan
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
Appearance:
Average
Looking for a good lady to spend time with
I am a 42yo male that has had a hard life as far as relationships go. Perhaps I am too eager to enter into them. Maybe that is why nothing has worked out for me. I am not saying that I never want a long term relationship. At this moment in my life, however, I just can't do it. I am content with finding someone that just wants some occasional companionship; can't always go to the movies by myself.
Toshio
Standard Member
Verified
51
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Fujimi, Saitama, Japan
Seeking:
Female 18 - 42
Appearance:
Average
Seeking a woman with intelligence and generosity
Hello there. Thank you for dropping by! It is just my pleasure to see you here. My name is Toshio. I'm a 51-year-old Japanese man living in Saitama, which is located a bit north of Tokyo. I hope you know where Tokyo is located from your point of vi
Mike
Standard Member
58
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Yokosuka, Kanagawa, Japan
Seeking:
Female 24 - 46
Appearance:
Average
Hi..
Sept 2012 I now live in Hayama and love being near the beach, too bad summer is almost over. FEB 2012, heading back to Japan, right now I am an hour out of Seattle. I look forward to being back to my second home. I hope to stay for a long time but it could be as short as 2 months but of course I will eventually be back. Life is good but it could be better when it is shared. Update Aug 2011. Back in the Chicago area. My time in Japan was great and I hope to be back soon. Life has its ups and downs, but those who know me, think I am fun loving, kind and intelligent. Had a rollercoaster of a ride in this thing called life and am in a good place now.
Subtleminded
Standard Member
54
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Kyōto, Kyoto, Japan
Seeking:
Female 21 - 60
Appearance:
Average
Hey there. Thanks for stopping by ;)
Passionate about music, yoga, capoeira, cinema, food, & a few other things. i see art & creativity in most activities. Had many adventures in life & imagine i will have a few more. (By the way, i’ll tell you my real name as we get to know each other 🤗)
Andre
Standard Member
33
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Chiba, Chiba, Japan
Seeking:
Female 25 - 35
Appearance:
Average
初めまして。
初めまして。 僕はアンドレです。 ダラスにテキサスから来ました。 2009から、僕は日本語を勉強しています。でも、僕の日本語は少しわかりません。よろしくお願いします。 私が訪問した場所。 静岡(夏) 東京(冬) 名古屋(冬) 神奈川(晩冬〜早春) I'm your average under-the-radar introvert, sort of quiet but very good at picking up on the way other feel around me. After the ice is broken I can become very-lighthearted, expressive and fun. I consider myself rather compassionate, adventurous and quite altruistic. I have quite the imagination, but I am firmly rooted in reality and can distinguish between the two. I like to program, write stories, study film, and go out and get lost on an adventure. Nature is beautiful and comes in so many shapes and forms yet the intricacy of our Universe is a marvel on its own hosting an infinite amount of possibilities. I really don't know boredom, I'm always thinking about things, wanting to learn new things and research everything whether its in my likes or dislikes. Nothing beats obtaining more knowledge, even about the most mundane of things. Not everything is as simple as it seems.
Tim
Standard Member
46
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Ōsaka, Osaka, Japan
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Appearance:
Average
Hi
Looking to meet new people, make new friends. I enjoy being creative, play a lot of sports, go hiking at least once a month. I'm a writer and a teacher. Love being adventurous. A romantic at heart.
Ravi
Standard Member
50
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 40 - 57
Appearance:
Average
Enjoy life together...
はじめまして。 I am a single Indian guy living and working in Tokyo for an American firm for about 27 years now. I am a permanent resident in Japan. Cooking, sports, reading and fitness are my hobbies. I also like to go on trekking and skiing sometimes. I am vegetarian. I am seriously looking forward to a stable long-term relationship leading to more. How about you? Nihongo mo OK desu. Hope to hear from you,
マイキー
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 36 - 45
Appearance:
Average
スマイルして!健康の元だ!
こんにちは。はじめまして 東京に25年以上定住しているのマイキーと申します! 現在ほぼ100%テレワークなので、どこでも仕事可能です。 [仕事] 翻訳業・通訳業 [好きなもの・こと] 焼肉、BBQ、焼き鳥、焼肉、ホルモン、もつ煮込み、タイ料理 サイクリング ホームBBQ 友達と動画企画・作成・編集 麻布十番、渋谷、恵比寿 サッカー観戦 公園呑み [好きなタイプ] 日本語できる方 人見知りせず、自分の気持ちをハッキリにコミュニケーションできる方 お酒が好きな方 ハッピーな人、前向き、ポジティブな方 *お顔写真載せてない方、マスク、サングラス、加工、後頭部のみを載せている方、ごめんなさい [プロファイル] アメリカのポートランドの出身・日本永住権持ち・獅子座 20歳に日本に留学しました。その後、アメリカの大学を卒業したら、すぐ日本に戻って、東京(合間に上海)での生活開始。 中国語も出来きます。 若い時、平日就職しながら、週末は日本各地に日帰りの舞台役者、漫才ショー全国回りました。 シングルファーザーです。この18年間、子供を育て、子供をインターナショナルスクールに通わせ、ほぼ毎晩夕食を作ってきました。(息子(同居)、娘(別居))2024年末っ子が巣出るから生涯のパートナーと出会えたらいいねと思ってます。 最後まで読んで下さってありがとうございます! どうぞよろしくお願いいたします。
🅲🅻🅰🆄🅳🅸🅾
Standard Member
49
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Yachiyo, Chiba, Japan
Seeking:
Female 38 - 42
Appearance:
Average
Hi there! Now I have some time!
My son is old enough now and does not want to tag along with me anymore. So I have some free time to look for a partner now. My day's off are weekends and holidays. Usually. It's been more that 10 years since I have been in a relationship, so I am kind of out of shape. Please help me?
mosabbir106
Standard Member
38
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Ōsaka, Osaka, Japan
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Appearance:
Average
A single person looking for love, a travel lover.
I am a never married Single person with no kid. A Travel enthusiastic heart, i would love to travel every countries of the world if i get the chance. Last month i was in Philippines for two weeks. I would love to visit Japan too. Also looking fo
Ajo
Standard Member
51
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 30 - 46
Appearance:
Average
Only well-educated woman with no children please.
I am always said to be kind. But maybe it is because I have lived in an environment in the past where I had to be assertive in order to be taken seriously, I am not good at using indirect language, and I clearly express my opinions to everyone, so I
Pei
Standard Member
34
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 20 - 35
Appearance:
Average
In sta??
ID like to learn English! Great place to stay! Because speaking in English is so cool! Great place to stay! Isnt it? ? Vol Ive lived in NYC for a little while, so I do speak in English but not fluent so plz help me to learning English tpc_ddbd_works and IM Japanese if you interesting in Japanese culture I can tell you sort of it! Great place to stay! Probably I will go to US this year I guest I can see u around by any chance IM musician If you have favorite musician, band, artist anything! Great place to stay! Plz recommend to me! Great place to stay! Okay now tell me about yourself
Ian
Standard Member
18
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 18 - 23
Appearance:
Average
Ingeniero creativo con planes claros
Soy Ingeniero de Sistemas de Perú 🇵🇪 Me considero una persona tranquila, creativa y respetuosa. Me gusta crear cosas, aprender, y tener conversaciones sinceras. Actualmente estoy en Perú, con planes de viajar a Japón. Valoro la estabilidad, el crec
Noel
Standard Member
40
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Yokosuka, Kanagawa, Japan
Seeking:
Female 25 - 40
Appearance:
Average
Kind, steady, and starting a new chapter in life
Born in 1985, Year of the Ox, blood type B, Scorpio. Originally from Taishan, Jiangmen (Guangdong, China). I immigrated to New York City in 2005 with my parents, and after 7 years of studying, living, and working there, I joined the U.S. Navy and have been stationed in Japan since then. I’m now an American citizen, currently living in Yokosuka, Japan. I am moving to Sasebo in Feb 2026 and will be stationed over there for the next three years. I was in a 9-year marriage, and this December it will be officially finalized as my ex-wife will sign the divorce papers and close that chapter of my life. I share this openly because I believe any new beginning should start with honesty and sincerity. ⸻ 💼 Work Ethic I’m a practical, detail-oriented person who takes responsibility seriously. I believe more in consistent effort than luck — taking steady steps and letting time bring results. ⸻ 🧠 Personality Somewhere between ISTJ-A and ISFJ-A — rational yet empathetic. Calm, grounded, emotionally stable, and principled. I value clear communication and integrity. I’m introspective, not easily influenced by trends, and I prefer thinking through things before acting. I avoid arguments and prefer discussing things together to solve problems peacefully. ⸻ 🏡 Lifestyle I live simply and have no bad habits. I prefer a clean, organized, and peaceful environment. I eat light, love sweet food, can’t really handle spicy food, and I value hygiene and health. ⸻ ❤️ View on Love I’m serious and loyal in a relationship. I don’t make promises lightly, but when I do, I do my best to keep them — and I hope my partner is the same. I deeply value exclusivity and emotional safety. If you genuinely treat me well, I will cherish and give back even more. I prefer a calm, stable, two-person world over drama or crowds. I believe in quiet connection, shared rhythm, and long-term companionship. If you’re the type who enjoys being close, and loves to be loved in return, that’s a huge plus for me. ⸻ 🌅 Future Plans I plan to retire early at age 47, in 2032, and live a peaceful, simple life with my future partner. I hope to stay in Japan long-term, but I’m also open to discussing moving to the U.S. or elsewhere, depending on our shared life plans.
Jerry
Standard Member
41
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 35 - 60
Appearance:
Average
はじめまして、よろしくお願いします
Thank you for checking out my profile. I signed up because I thought it would be nice to meet someone I wouldn't normally meet! I work for Tokyo Electron, designing semiconductors. It's often hard, but I feel proud and fulfilled that I'm doing a job that supports so many people's daily lives behind the scenes! They're so curious that they have to do things that they're interested in. Thankfully, I'm often referred to as "interesting" and "reliable". I love connecting with people and communicating with people, and I love listening to people's stories and telling my own stories! Hobbies: Golf/diving/skiing/fitness/reading, you can match each other's hobbies, and we'd love to explore common hobbies together The ideal relationship is one in which you are on an equal footing with yourself. I'd like to start by texting and getting to know each other, so take it easy! It's a pleasure to meet you.
Ahmad
Standard Member
23
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 22 - 40
Appearance:
Average
21 Year Old
I was born in Pakistan and raised in Pakistan for 18 years. moved to dubai and started a new journey there now i am working in telecommunication company for last 3 years. i shifted in japan from last 1 Year. Looking forward to meet you Love to Pla
Aji
Standard Member
Verified
34
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 26 - 33
Appearance:
Average
ロフィールをご覧いただきありがとうございました。
ロフィールをご覧いただきありがとうございました。 日本に住んでいるインドネシア人です インドネシアで 17 年間過ごし、その後シンガポールに行って 4 年間大学で勉強しました。卒業した後、1年間日本に来て都北大学で研究留学していました。 6年間ぐらいインドネシアで働いて、昨年、日本に戻って暮らして働くことにしました。 現在は東京に住んでて、Citi銀行でIT関係な仕事をしています。一週間三回オフィスに行かなければならない仕事です。 ここで登録したのは、良い女性と仲良くなれたら将
Shan
Standard Member
Verified
55
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Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Appearance:
Average
True love
Hello, I live Japan My hobby is travel music cooking Visit Nice place garden; I M looking; good friendship who is True love and have Since of Humour I’m a down-to-earth earth Value relationship with Everyone who values kindness, honesty, and laughter. I love good conversations and making memories with the people I care about. Looking to meet someone genuine who’s ready for something real.
Ramin
Standard Member
52
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Kawagoe, Saitama, Japan
Seeking:
Female 27 - 45
Appearance:
Average
Hi nice to meet you
Always hard to describe himself...i am happy people though. I'm outgoing and easy to immediately hit it off; i love to have fun and joke, but seriously care about feelings and listen what people want to share. I'm talkative, but good listener... I then, let's find out if you want.....
Erik
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Verified
49
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Konan, Shiga, Japan
Seeking:
Female
Appearance:
Average
looking for my life partner...
I live in Japan and Im not rich or handsome guy, Im just a man that is looking for that special woman... why dont we start chatting and give us a chance to know each other...
Carlos
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Verified
37
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Seto, Aichi, Japan
Seeking:
Female 22 - 33
Appearance:
Average
日本語勉強する留学生。コロンビア人です
Hi, my name is Carlos, Colombian. Actually work as Electronic Enginner, I'm in Japan as an international student. My native language is Spanish, but I can speak English and Japanese (N3). I like study Japanese, make electronic projects, play videogames and Soccer. Hello, my name is Karlos. 電子工学の技術屋です。 From 2023年4月日本にいます。 母語はスペイン語ですが、 英語と日本語少し話せます。 日本語勉強するのが好きです、 ヴィデオげームとサッカーも好きです。 Please welcome. 今は可愛くて面白い日本人の女性を恋人になりたいと将来結婚の予定があります。 (It's nice to meet you, but I don't know if you're going to
Jin
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Verified
43
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Ichikawa, Chiba, Japan
Seeking:
Female 21 - 40
Appearance:
Average
Let’s have fun and enjoy the life!!
Hi I’m Jin and I was born and grew up in Germany. My main language is German. I live now n Japan since 10 years. I'm working as security officer at Dater Center from Microsoft. My position is supervisor. I love to travel to different countries and places. I’m very interested to know the culture and the people. I watch sometimes anime, Netflix and YouTube. I like to discover good cafes or restaurants for delicious food. I’m gentle, nice and open minded. I'm looking someone who lives in Japan. Thank you for reading my profile.😊
Hirofumi
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51
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Nakamura, Kochi, Japan
Seeking:
Female 38 - 49
Appearance:
Average
Waiting for my soulmate.
I'm living in a countryside in Shikoku, I 'm in a sorrow because my lover passed away in may 2019 due to subarachnoid hemorrhage. I hope to have someone to talk and love with. It may make some of you sick, But I'm a little bi-curious. So, bi-curious/bisexual women are also welcome
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