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49 Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking: Female 27 - 43
I am from the USA and am presently living in Tokyo. I am good humored, easy going, smart, and enjoy joking around. I am also a musician, I play the piano, saxophone, clarinet, and flute. Looking for a nice girl with substance who has a GOOD HEART. I am looking for a partner who is more given to Cabernet than Coors...a girl who can appreciate the existential validity that comes from endurance sports. I'm the complete and utter opposite of "what you see is what you get"- I am made up of kaleidoscopically changing molecules. I am currently drawing out a life map that hopefully will help me go out and grab the world by the lapels. I am also lots of other things; a witty, right handed lover of psychology and philosophy; an analytical, sarcastic product of the 80's; a post-modern, up-side-down handful of fun thoughts; Bonafide dreamer whose imagination burns the midnight oil. Rambler, vagabond, existentialist, non-judgmental, and a free spirit. ...And of course, a human being who is good at: over-analyzing the intricacies of human behavior, anticipating the storm, gaining the trust of animals, knowing when to hold 'em, knowing when to fold 'em, problem solving, ridicule, sarcasm, biting wit, talking with authority when I question it, extending the olive branch, explaining what I'm really good at, etc. I tend to live in the gray, but venture into the black and white on occasion for perspective's sake. Hey, if you like chocolate, Kirin Beer, and candlelight, that certain savoir faire, then that sounds good to me. :)
42 Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking: Female 22 - 40
Ohayo! My name is Brendon & I'm big on travelling as much as possible. I just arrived here in Tokyo this January! I lived here for 2.5 years 7 years ago (& yes I can speak conversational Japanese), yet it feels so fresh & bright to be back. I’ve done various jobs & been fortunate to spend time in lots of different parts of the world, & last year I was working with an education / development NGO in Ghana. Wherever I am I like to meet like-minded people & enjoy quality time. So I'm excited to be here to see what we have to offer each other! I’m interested in all kinds of stuff & like to be a mix of things. I like adventure & do a lot of travelling & photography. I enjoy sports & staying in shape in general. Depending on the time of year and location I play tennis & frisbee and go snowboarding, surfing, rollerblading etc. I like to relax & enjoy myself but also find the deeper things in life really important. Everything is energy & I do some yoga & meditation on a regular basis. Music & dancing are really important to me, yet I also value reading books & writing poetry. I'm in the process of writing a poetic saga, and plan to be serious about it this year. I love spending time in nature & also appreciate art, design, architecture, drawing a lot of inspiration from the happenings, learnings & joys of life. I take surprises & mystery wherever I can get them & the winding journey of self-improvement just seems to get better & better the further along the path we go. I keep a keen eye on what’s happening in the world & remain positive, envisioning the future as being the most wonderful, dreamlike lifestyles of cooperation & abundance of what really matters and brings joy. Yet we need to take action & make changes to get there & I want to do my part to make the world a better place for all of us. Great things are happening around us everyday, we only need to tune in to feel it & know! I’m not sure what else to say. I'm not a conformist, I am left-handed and typically right-brained & do & see things in my unique way & steadfastly maintain that stance. People say I’m fun, easy-going, romantic & thoughtful. I'm definitely a dreamer & idealist - magic is real & surrounds us! Anyhow, I’d love to hear from & connect with anyone nice who appreciates things from a similarly deep & bright perspective. If you like all that then send me a message & maybe catch you later! Peace ;)
48 Tōkyō, Tokyo, Japan
Seeking: Female 23 - 37
If you need a smart, thoughtful, strong man in you life.. read on... I'm not your typical American. I'm kind of 'Russell Crow' type with British sense of humour . You will laugh if you're with me... and perhaps eat too much ice cream too ;) My ideal girl would be a nihonjin who's a bit like Penelope Cruz. 私は、温厚で、人気者で、正直、でも面白いです。クリエィティブで、年齢よりずっと賢いです。 私の趣味は、ピクニックや、公園を散歩することです。デートでは映画を観たいです。素敵なレストランで笑いがたくさんのご飯ができたらうれしいです。そして、アイスクリームをたくさん食べさせてあげたいです。理想の女性は、美人で、賢くて、おっとりしていて、かわいらしい人です。まあ、80%天使で20%わがままな子がいいな。年齢は、25歳から35歳を希望します。でも、一番大事なのは、誠実で、思いやりがあって愛情深いことかな。 英語ができなくても大丈夫です。私が日本語を勉強するべきなのです。 でも、私は、ここで日本語の先生を探しているわけではありません。相性のいい女性に出会えて、運がよければ愛し合える相手を見つけたいです。 To anyone else... I'm an English speaker... but am currently looking for a Japanese woman who lives here in Tokyo. Regardless, I thank you for all your kind words. '-)



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