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Alex
27 • Lawrenceville, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26
Appearance: Attractive
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I'm an American, half white half Filipino guy, living in the U.S. I used to be a welder, but I'm currently trying to leave welding behind & become a powerlifter instead, very dedicated right now to working out in the gym, but I also enjoy quite a
Shane
54 • Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 46
Appearance: Attractive
A Thousand Slowly Dying Sunsets
I love meeting new people, trying new things, good conversation, exploring the city and the outdoors, tasting beer, brewing beer, playing/writing/recording music, singing, animals, renovating houses, writing/poetry/reading, travel and road trips, hiking/camping .... and Greek yogurt. I play guitar/bass, some drums and piano, do a little singing. I write, record, and produce music (using Logic Pro X mostly) and have played in several bands in Portland and in China. I do some writing when I can, especially poetry and song lyrics - not nearly as much as I did earlier in my life - music kind of took over as a greater passion. Real estate investing is currently my main business. I also co-founded a brewery/tap house in China in 2016 and may be contract brewing beer again soon in both the US and Asia. Previously, I worked in microelectronics, and prior to that, nuclear power. I love theoretical physics and have read a ton about it; also love stuff like history, geography, cultural studies, etc. I have traveled to Europe twice, as wall as Costa Rica and several places in Asia. I've lived all over the US but have been in Portland more than twice as long as anywhere else. Stuff I do which may or may not have anything to do with "like": Cleaning and organizing; home improvement; working out and running ... cuz you never know when you may need to wrestle an alligator ... or run from one. Who I'm looking for! "I want you and the skyline - these are my demands" Absolute Musts: You must be able to walk on water ... It was no big deal for Jesus - why not you? That's really all I ask. "Remember, when you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself as someone who needs to judge." - Dr. Wayne Dyer
Jay
51 • Ontario, California, United States
Seeking: Female
Appearance: Attractive
Just moved to the SoCal area! :)
I'm a nice and friendly guy who loves to have fun and likes to get out of the house and find new things to do. I just moved here and would love to see more of the area! I'm single with no children. I really want to learn Japanese, and if you want any help with English, I know it better than almost anyone. :) I have played soccer for 27 years (including college) and I have played guitar for 18 years, also I'm a photographer and I have two small businesses (very small still! hehe). I'm a professional in the jewelry industry during the day, and I think that's about it for now!
kevin
61 • West Memphis, Arkansas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 60
Appearance: Average
I don't want perfect, I just want Genuine.
.I am a retired oil analyst.I am Widowed and I am ready to move on with my life. Serious when I need to be....focused.., ..laid back when I get the chance. A little rough around the edges. Isaiah 60:22 "When the time is right, I THE LORD will make it happen".
Vic
46 • Arlington, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 30
Appearance: Average
Introvert looking for a similar soul :)
A little about myself. Love to travel and a very curious person about the planet. Have been around the world a few times but going forward would like to share this amazing exploration with someone that has the same priorities and life goals. Loyal an
Chris
33 • Bend, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 37
Appearance: Average
Driven, adventurous, and always up for a challenge
I’m a deep thinker with a laid-back vibe, always seeking growth and adventure. I work nights, study physics, and produce music. I enjoy strategic games, exploring different cultures, and staying sharp—whether through mentalism, gaming, or music production. Life’s too short for hesitation, and I believe in taking chances. If you like good conversation, humor, and a mix of intellect and spontaneity, we’ll get along well.
Gary
54 • Chesterfield, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Appearance: Average
Hi there! Hi there! 
 I am a nice, loving and responsible professional man. I am an experienced father raised my kids alone, I have been married before and experienced unfaithful partners. I am 100% healthy and getting more fit every day. I work in USA, Kenya and Asia often. I am in Nairobi more than any other African city and I speak a few words of Kiswahili. When I am in Nairobi I am usually there for weeks to months, I am currently back in USA now but will be back soon.
Ray
50 • Nashville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 60
Appearance: Average
Looking For A Friendship
First, I want you to know that their is still a few nice respectful guys around, you just met one. I'm single romantic, I live alone, independent, finance security. I have several hobbies that I enjoy doing. Drawing, Painting, Photography, Video Phot
Ryan
44 • Stanton, California, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 43
Appearance: Average
Capturing Life’s Beauty, One Adventure at a Time
I’m someone who finds joy in capturing life’s moments through photography and exploring the beauty of nature. Whether it’s a hike through a serene forest, a spontaneous road trip, going to a baseball game, or discovering hidden gems in a new city, I love being outdoors and embracing the adventure that comes with it. I’m open-minded and always eager to try something new, whether it’s a unique cuisine, an exciting activity, or a different perspective on life. I believe relationships thrive on shared experiences, good communication, and a sense of curiosity about the world and each other.
Michael
55 • Spokane, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 47
Appearance: Average
so many fake profiles on here! only serious women!
I can't believe I paid to be on here! lol! I'm really just looking for a forever partner. someone I can create good memories with. I have a great sense of humor and just love to have a great time. I'm all about peace and harmony. if you enjoy these t
Ken
65 • Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Appearance: Average
Sense Of Humor A Must
I recently got out of a long-term relationship and moved back to California (USA) from Thailand, and I am looking to meet new people on here for friendship or more with the ultimate goal of finding a compatible soul for a long term committed relation
Chad
57 • Saint Louis, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Appearance: Average
Hello, I would like to find and meet a special lady. Are you her? For the right person, I would travel to the end of the earth to be with them. I'm caring, kind, intelligent, and compassionate. I am a down to earth person. I enjoy travel and sc
Roberto
40 • Del Rio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 30
Appearance: Average
Buscando la conexión perfecta
¡Hola! Soy Roberto. Me gusta pasar tiempo con amigos, jugar videojuegos, viajar y aprender cosas nuevas. Soy una persona amigable y divertida que disfruta de las pequeñas cosas de la vida. Estoy aquí para conocer a alguien especial y compartir moment
Marcus
38 • Savannah, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 45
Appearance: Average
Caring, thoughtful and down to earth
I have ambitions in my work life to become a Director. This takes time and dedication. So naturally most of my time is spent working. This has naturally caused a gap in my life and we're I haven't had much time for anyone. Now that i have a good job
James
38 • Louisville, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 40
Appearance: Average
Looking for my life long partner
I'm a simple man that's a homebody at heart. I'm here to find my forever to start a family with. I enjoy concerts, festivals, d&d, video games. Music is a big part of my life, I'm a bigger guy on a weight loss journey, just trying to better myself. I
D. Alan
74 • Wilmington, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 54 - 68
Appearance: Average
Looking for a serious relationship.
I believe that a strong relationship begins with sincere and honest communication as its foundation. I am an old school romantic. That is to say, that I still like to hold hands, put my arm around you and feel closeness. I also believe that her inner beauty must be equal to or exceed her outward appearance.
Ryan
35 • Chino Hills, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 38
Appearance: Average
Do you like video games and D&D."
I am a starting out artist/designer in the video game field. I have worked in multiple mediums like drawing, sculpting, metalwork, and mostly now digital painting and 3D modeling. Some of my favorite video games are the Resident evil series, Silent
Spencer
30 • Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 36
Appearance: Average
29 Male considering an overseas relationship
Avid Gamer and computer technician. I spend most of my week working and gaming on the weekends. I got to Karaoke most Wednesdays. I also want to learn to speak Japanese. I'm hoping having a friend to help me remember phrases and words.
KEVIN
52 • Cheektowaga, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Appearance: Average
looking for a long-term partner
Im a homebody I dont like to travel Im a stay at home type of person i have been single for 28 years and only had one girlfriend and very shy. I am 6ft 4in 360 lb my nephew who has Down syndrome lives with me and i take care of him i have no other family Im looking for long-term someone I can play video games with and yes you would come before any game lol and just cuddle and watch TV Im a simple t shirt jeans kind of guy I like the simple life out in the country I drive in a red old Ford pickup Im not looking to move and I dont speak Chinese I like to build stuff and it would be nice to have someone to build stuff with Im horrible at cleaning and organizing lol I act like a kid most the time are there any real profiles on this site I'm very shy and it's hard for me to talk or take pictures of myself do you like to play some video games
Ryan
48 • Port Angeles, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Appearance: Average
新しい場所で楽しみを探しています
Moving with my son to Nagoya Japan in the summer of 2026. To emerse ourselves in Japanese language and culture. I'm a fun loving person who likes the outdoors,camping,swimming, motorcycles,anime,movies and music etc. 2026 年の夏に息子とともに名古屋に移住します。日本語と
Randy
66 • Chico, California, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 64
Appearance: Average
For love only.
Live in northern California, with property in the country. I have an almond orchard and many fruit and citrus trees. If you are from a big city you would have to like living in country, nearest small town is 10 miles from my house. Look forward to ge
Eric
40 • Mesa, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Appearance: Average
I'm here to find that special someone.
Tim
57 • Rockville, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 48
Appearance: Average
Looking for a place to call “home”
Hi-I live in the US but would like to find a new home. I am actively visiting countries around the world and would like to visit and learn more about your culture. My second child will be living on his own this year (2023) so I’m excited to visit lat
Michael
35 • Joplin, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 39
Appearance: Average
Shine bright like a diamond 💎.
Well born in country of Georgia. Was adopted at the Age of 5 and live in the United States. 5 things about me. Independent, caring, quiet person, hard working, goal oriented person. Hobbies I enjoy all types of music, watching movies play video gam
Carlos
23 • Cupertino, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Appearance: Average
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looking for friends currently majoring in psychology into anything horror/true crime stuff also into anime and reading (w;"hmu w some animes or good books) :) lately been watching demon slayer, Platinum End and Tokyo Revengers I like to
Adam
34 • Colorado Springs, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Appearance: Average
Searching for something new
初めまして! My name is Adam, and I am currently studying Japanese in hopes of staying in Japan long term, and would like to find a good relationship. I am a musician (guitar/piano), gaming, anime, cooking, exploring new things. I am open for a serious
Trent
59 • Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 60
Appearance: Average
No Games...Just you and I
I am a very passionate, romantic guy. I love anything to do with the outdoors and a go with the flow type person. I can get along with anyone and enjoy just about anything. I have a great personality with a great sense of humor. I am very affectionate and love PDA. Im a cuddler, a snuggler a touchy feely type person. I have a big heart and a strong mind. I am brutally honest, loyal and faithful. I am not here for serial dating nor am I a person who needs or wants a pen pal. i am all bout your mind, soul and heart. Looks aren't everything, but who you are doesn't change. There is a lot more to me than in this short story. Please write to me if my profile interests you. I have an illness which does not allow me to fly. I will need to find someone who can come here to the USA to meet.
Dylan
37 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Appearance: Average
Traveling Game Designer
I am a digital nomad and game developer For me, life's greatest joys are exercising my mind, experiencing new things, and entertaining others. I spent many years as a software engineer before saving up enough money to travel full time and pursu
Michael
40 • Rochester, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 45
Appearance: Average
Hello there!
More importantly I plan on visiting Japan in the near future, it would be really nice to have a few friends to visit when I do. I love to get out and explore around anywhere. Movies and music are always welcome too! Relaxing never hurts rt? lol I'm
Derek
53 • Olympia, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 42
Appearance: Average
A nice guy looking for a partner
I cook for fun. I can make almost anything. Sometimes I follow recipes :-). My favorites are Japanese, Italian, Mexican, and on and on. I worked 2 years in Japan, so that is my favorite to cook. Japan has great non-sushi food :-) for the non-sushi folks. I cook to please. I am an early riser, so you can expect breakfast in bed on weekends. I am not vegetarian or vegan, but I like vegetables (except brussels sprouts). I am a big fan of good food! I love to travel, both internationally and domestically. I've been to lots of countries in Asia, Europe, Scandinavia, South America, the Caribbean, the South Pacific and Africa. I want to go everywhere (almost). I am happy to go wherever you want. I can do either a fancy resort or sleep in a tent. Both are fun. I like to explore. I am a lucky professional with an awesome job. I don't work weekends, have lots of vacation time, and have every other Friday off. I am not lazy. I do dishes, laundry, vacuum, clean toilets... I give good foot and back massages. I like slowly pulling my fingers through hair and massaging heads. I like to snuggle, especially when it is cold! I don't play video games (I try, but I suck at it), and I watch a normal amount of tv. I like going out to eat, but I don't like the super noisy night life. I am patient. Example: Imagine driving down a small dirt road 30 miles from town in Brazil’s Pantanal. You approach a wood bridge. It seems like you can drive around it because it is dry season. You decide to cross the bridge, because, well, it is a bridge. Halfway across, a tire hits a plank. The plank rises and crashes into your fuel pump. Fuel leaks and the car is stuck. It is nearly 100 degrees and you failed at Portuguese for travelers. You can say “onde fica” (where is), but not much else. There are many ways to react to this type of situation. I just rolled with the punches, took it as a learning experience, and now have the story to tell. A truck eventually drove by, took me to town, and a fuel pump arrived from another town a few hours later. Note to self. What seems obvious isn’t always right. Further note to self, learn "help" before "where is" when travelling in a non-English speaking country. I am polite. Examples: My father grew up in Texas and taught me the Southern way, and I lived in Japan for 2 years. Enough said. When I am bored, I study Japanese. I am outgoing, compassionate, sympathetic, and happy. There is zero chance that I will move out of Washington State while I am still working. I have a great job that requires me to be here, and I want to be near my son, at least while he thinks I am super cool :-). I am open to retire almost anywhere.
Edward
47 • Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 39
Appearance: Average
Looking for new friends!
I am very easy going with a great sense of humor. I enjoy going to new places and also relaxing at home with a good movie. i enjoy meeting new ppl and seeking new adventures! i lived in Tokyo for about 5 years and now living in Korea. i was born in hawaii and lived there most of my life until i moved to seattle for college and work.
Herald
36 • Abilene, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 39
Appearance: Below average
私たちが何をもたらすかではなく, しかし、それはお互いを高め合うことです。
I had the option to be a computer programmer nerd but i chose to be a bit more crazier and became an infantry in the US ARMY, been to the sandbox for a year in 2008. I am now helping shape future leaders of this nation, in a university in Texas. Bi
manuel
69 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 35
Appearance: Average
looking for a lifetime relationship
looking for a long term relationship and to have woman no game please. enjoy movie, travel, beach diner too. good provider familly who care about his family. like to have an nice time even if i' at home. i'm honest, trushworthy and faithful easy
Dean
59 • Cleveland, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 48
Appearance: Average
looking for the love of my life
I am 5'3 grey hair good build I like boating, swimming,camping,beach,fishing,water slides. I am very romantic and treat my girl like a queen. I am a person who will hold your hand any place any time, I like to hug and cuddle, I also like to touch my
Michael
55 • Westminster, California, United States
Seeking: Female 47 - 68
Appearance:
Hi my Soulmate
am an accomplished wonderful funny lively lovely crazy unique man...I am an outgoing, free-spirited man who has a positive outlook on life and enjoys spontaneity. I love a good sense of humor and I am extremely young at heart!!Love to enjoy a quiet night at home snuggled on the couch watching a good TV show or movie, yet also enjoy heading to a local watering hole for a beer a sports game or live music.Love listening to music and am a %$!%er for good lyrics and a good beat. Love a bit Eminem... a WIDE range!! Lol.... I am romantic at heart, yet definitely love to be silly sometimes and I appreciate someone who feels the same.

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