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ben is from United States

ben (58)

Hi.. Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal

I am Glad you would like to get to know more about me , call me Ben 52yrs of Age new to all this online dating stuff and looking for a honest woman to spend the rest of my life with someday, you sound nice and honest and i would like to get to know m

defensetwo is from United States

defensetwo (40)

Seeking new friends in new places... Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 38 for Penpal

I've always loved Japanese art, culture, food, history, and martial arts. I am a US government contract who works overseas. Recently I had the pleasure of visiting Japan earlier this year and fell in love with the country. I made some good friends and look forward to returning again and making more.


carroll is from United States

carroll (39)

some one to love Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 37 for Penpal

Im fun to be around. Up for anything will try anything once twice if I like it. I'm your typical 34 year old caring fun loving Libra male I love Oriental women and culture. I have been in the army as a para trooper in the mid 90's I went to college at Appalachian state university I am a cheif and night club event coordinator. usually I enrich the lives of others and make sure every one has a smile or laugh basically every one loves me I hope u will to look forward to hearing from you

Mark is from United States

Mark (31)

Why are woman so scared to date a... Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 30 for Penpal

It would seem that talking about one self is difficult to start so Im just going to Jump right in. Im currently in the Military. Im a Military Policeman. And I work as Government Cop contracted through a personal Police /security agency. I have done a little over 2 years in college and 3 years in military Schooling. Career wise and in most everything I strive to be the best. i push myself to the limits and if i cant get it right the first time I keep trying until i succeed. Im a pretty laid back but moderately outgoing type of guy.Im shy in large groups but i warm up really fast.I guess occupational training has taught me to be cautious at first. I love the outdoors. Everything from Running, Hiking, biking, Camping, Fishing, Biking, Paintball, horseback riding, Rock climbing. I love going to the beach even though I burn more than I tan. I want to travel maybe go see Europe and parts of Asia but I know that traveling is no fun if you cant do it with someone special and share the great places with them. I am not an alcoholic but i can hold more than most thanks to my Irish genes :) Im not a big party guy. But I do enjoy going out to the bar with friends maybe an Irish pub or just to go watch the MMA fights. Finding someone to enjoy that with would be nice. I like to work out and stay healthy and in shape. So a running partner is always a bonus. some one that can motivate me as well as I can motivate her. I have an interesting style of humor, some of it is funny, dry and crude and the military has corrupted me into swearing more than im use to. But you need to know I mean no harm and when need be I have the highest respect for people and their opinions and feelings. I can be a bit of a romantic. I like to cook for my woman but I really enjoy cooking together, I like to go see a chick flick from time to time and I wont lie I sometimes like them. But to keep my man hood in check i have to follow it up with a man flick lol. I am all for candle lit dinners by the water and sending roses for no real reason. Or just setting up a relaxing day just for her like a day at the spa or a home made spa ending with a nice movie or tv show on the couch. Cheesy? yea it happens. Im also not like your typical guy. I actually dont mind shopping for and with my woman. I dont complain and sigh from boredom when we go. The way I see it is I get to spend time with my woman and give her a guys advice on if she is smoking or if she just should never pick that up again. lol. i like to spoil her a bit make her feel like the only one in the world. I would gladly pass up time with anything else to show her that she means more because i love the intoxication i get from being around happiness. I hope she feels the same. Im looking for a best friend as well as a partner because I feel that if you have both you have found yourself a solid relationship. One built to last. I believe that Honesty, trust, forgiveness and communication and loyalty are the pillars to the foundation of a great relationship. I would like my women to be able to talk to me about anything like i was her best friend. I need her to have a good head on her shoulders, stable financially and career wise. I need her to know when to be serious and when its time to play. Like I said before I am not a big partier but I dont mind hosting a few friends. I definitely dont mind going out and having a good time on the weekends so i dont want a girl that is too shy to be social. Also I dont need a woman that lives in the gym but I do prefer women that will at least keep up with their health. If you weigh more than I do because you cant take care of yourself, please move on. Natural curves is fine but unhealthy weight is a no go. I dont want you to waste your time.I have my reasons behind my picky selection. I dont judge you nor do I not respect your selection or opinion so please do not disrespect mine. Thank you. Finally if you do drugs or cant hold a intelligent conversation without talking like your uneducated. Dont bother writing me. Otherwise I look forward to hearing from you. 

Jesse is from United States

Jesse (42)

Life is happening... Now Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 38 for Penpal

Life lived for tomorrow will always be just a day away from being realized. I am relaxed and laid back. I have a beautiful daughter (toddler). I enjoy my job. I enjoy my time away from work. I believe in being healthy, both physically and mentally. Daily meditation is an important daily activity.


Patrick is from United States

Patrick (34)

dont be shy chance are i want to ... Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Penpal

i am a fun loving guy who will try anything once. i dont judge people i am all about seeing what a person is like before coming to any conclusion and even then i wont judge. i enjoy the usual things in life hang out spots as in local grill and bars to go bowling shoot pool. i have a sensitive side to me as well so i am sensitive to a womans needs. if you want to know any specific things about me don't be afraid come say hi and ask because chances are i want to get to know you.


Jeromie is from United States

Jeromie (42)

Seeking my hearts love. 私の心... Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 35 for Penpal

Hi..I'm a pretty laid back type of person. I don't like confrontations but if need be will settle them in any means necessary. I hold my self to a standard of being a Southern Gentleman which in kind means that I am polite, respectful towards people and my surroundings, I treat others the way I want them to treat myself. I find myself to be a paradox in which no one understands. I see people from my own country and those around the world to be one and the same, we all have the same color blood, we all cry when were hurt, we all believe in God the way we want to. For myself I am looking for my soul mate, I know she is some where in this world, I just pray we meet and enjoy the rest of our lives together.


Philip is from United States

Philip (26)

Konichiwa, peoples! Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 20 for Penpal

Hi, I'm Phil. If there's one place I've always wanted to go to in life, it's Japan. I read about it in manga and watch it in anime. It's simply amazing. In case it wasn't already obvious, I'm a huge anime nerd, and though I doubt I've quite reached O


Vesco is from United States

Vesco (37)

I am just looking for love Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33 for Penpal

I am a funny kind sweet guy I am down to earth loving an treat women with honor and respct . I am one who enjoys the simple things in life I am a kid at heart. I am shy at first but warm up quickly. I am not good at talking about myself lol but I'll answer questions you might i hope to hear from you

Fue is from United States

Fue (30)

Happiness! Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 21 for Penpal

Hi, my name is Fue Vang. There's not much to say about me. I'm just plain and simple. I like the stars, the night skys. Though i've never seen a shooting star in my life. I'd like to see one someday. I like seeing others laugh and having fun. I enjoy funny and scary movies. My favorite restruant is ummm, Saigon. I'd like to ride the tallest roller coasters in the world and scream at the top of my lungs. I'd like to walk along the beach shores someday while the sun sets. I'd like to go sky diving and enjoy life's thrills. But before i attempt to achieve any of these goals. I will find somebody. Somebody to fill in that seat next to me on the tallest roller coaster. Somebody to walk beside me while walking down the beach shores while the sun sets. Somebody to plunge into the air with me and hold my hand.

Daniel is from United States

Daniel (34)

looking for adventure Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 26 for Penpal

Hi, I born in Poland, as a kid Japan was for me mysterious something not reachable. Movies about Japan culture or society were always something what fascinated me enormously. Right now, I live and study in US (NC, awesome state a lot of lakes and mou


Pete is from United States

Pete (52)

Let's Go! Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25 for Penpal

Just checking things out for now. I will visit the Philippines in April for vacation and would like to meet up with some one for coffee, drinks or dinner. If we like each other, we can take it from there. I am a gentleman and I always treat my


brandon is from United States

brandon (34)

Hello Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32 for Penpal

Hello, my name is Brandon. I am currently a student at UNCC in North Carolina of the United States. Next semester I will start Japanese study. I am looking for friends for language exchange. My goal is after Japanese study is complete to become international student and travel to Japan. I look forward to learning more about your culture. :)))


Jason is from United States

Jason (28)

Hey I'm Jason I'm new to this so ... Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 31 for Penpal

I'm respectful I consider my self a gentleman and looking to Learn about others culture and hope maybe so can help me to learn about the women I meet on here I love to submerge my in others culture and maybe teach you a lil about my culture as well I respect all ways of life and culture and religion I am open to many religious beliefs I do not judge ppl for who they are I can be a very quick learner I will be respectful and very dedicated to finding someone as i do no give up ez I'm just me hopefully I can be introduce to new things teach me the language culture I will learn I am a about respect I'm an adventures eater I'm a car guy I love cars from all over from Japanese to muscle I am also rather muscular and love to give bear hug I'm a very big teddy bear so don't be shy say hello I a very silly person once u get to know me I love to smile and make my partner smile if I can find someone on this site as much as possible I hope that I can am also a movie buff I'll watch any movie once try anything and adapt to diffrent ways of life I a sunglasses person lol I do believe in looking my best a hygiene is important to do is smelling good

Glen is from United States

Glen (37)

Gamer(ゲーマー) Guy looking for frien... Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40 for Penpal

My main Hobby is Gaming.(ゲーマー) My educational background is in Digital Media and Video Game Development. I work part-time as a Mobile Game Developer, part-time in Information Technology. I enjoy Japanese Culture and have been taking classes in Japanese language.


Carl is from United States

Carl (54)

Hi Chickie Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 40 for Penpal

Good Loving Man, likes family atmoshpere. I am very clean cut, class guy, not married, I have been. I have nice home on 1/2 acre in NC. Not a native southerner, I raised my family in central Indiana. I am kind and gentle and like a good woman to c

Robert is from United States

Robert (58)

Looking for Love Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 60 for Penpal

I am not big on talking about myself, but here goes. For one I am a one woman man. I don't play games and have no time for those that do. I am a simple man and laid back and easy going.I enjoy family outings and get togethers. I was never able to have my own. I like camping and all things concerning nature. I love horses but will admit I haven't been riding in some time. I like most outdoor sports If any of you ladies are seeking money, pass me by....


Justin  is from United States

Justin (34)

.:looking for someone... Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 26 for Penpal

I'm 24 and living in North Carolina temporarily. I'm a dreamer at heart. I'm a warm weather kind of guy. I like seaturtles, the beach, and I love to travel. For my interests I like I like photography, playing my guitar, writing music, cooking, being


Michael is from United States

Michael (35)

Not much to say really Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 36 for Penpal

Like I said not much to say really....I work 4 days then off for 4 days....great job...everything in my life is taken care of except for the whole love part and car is paid worries really....but at 32 years old its got me thinking...."Am I going to be alone forever?" lol

David is from United States

David (39)

looking for something real Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25 for Penpal

love all things, and i will tell you everything about me when we talk.

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