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Ken is from United States

Ken (53)

Looking for that right someone Louisville, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 45 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

Hello, let me start by saying that I am not very good at sharing things about myself without being asked specific questions. Overall I think that in many ways I am not the typical American or Male for that matter. I am educated (Bachelors in Database Administration with strong background in Mathematics and Programming), fairly well-read, I try to view the world and events in a logical manner and have my own sense of Honor that I will not deviate from. I have surmised some things about myself below, and if there is something specific that you would like to know, please feel free to ask me. I have also noticed a penchant on these sites for people to espouse their best or fantasy qualities about themselves, and then share very little about what they are looking for, I will try my best to be as transparent as possible and will share what I see as my good, bad and other traits. I have traveled to Tokyo twice now and enjoyed it greatly each time, though it took the second trip for me to realize just how large Tokyo is compared to my home city of Louisville. I know that I can come across to people as cold or uncaring and that I can be very difficult to live with; there are reasons for this that I am more than willing to discuss with the right person, I will say that many of these reasons were revealed to me only a few years ago. I was married for just over thirteen years and have been single again since 2008. The divorce was relatively amicable and I do occasionally speak to my ex and her new husband and even see them socially on rare occasions where we are at events with mutual friends – some of these same friends were more than a little surprised that we still get along well, or so I have been told. Since the divorce I have met a very few women, but they were not for me, so we parted ways. Our marriage was actually over some years prior to it becoming official, and this may be why we did not allow it to become adversarial like so many others do. There is much that I do not understand about relationships and I am fully aware that cross-cultural relationships begin at a significant disadvantage, but I also know that for any relationship to work and be fruitful the couple must be able to freely and openly talk to one another about anything. That being said here is a little about myself; I consider myself to be fairly aver overall, I am 5’11” (180cm) and weigh about 220 (100 kilos), but I am working to get down under 200 (90 kilos), I have already mentioned that I have a specific sense of Honor, simply stated it means that I give and demand in return Honesty and straight forwardness. There are too many people today that do not believe in this simple truth. I do not care much for the way the American culture has devolved over the past decades, and it pains me know that things will get worse yet before it has a chance to recover, if it can recover. Even so, this is my current home and I try to make the best of it that I can. However, I have decided that I do not wish to spend my “Golden Years” here, I would like to eventually settle down someplace in Asia and possible spend time teaching and enjoying life. Thank you for taking time to read this, now here is my summary of myself. The Good: • Honest and Loyal to friends, family and anyone I care for • Like to Travel • I like to learn things for the sake of learning • I can talk to just about anyone about just about anything • I enjoy cooking, but not for just myself • I am fiscally responsible • I do not smoke • I drink very little, just a few mixed drinks each year at most and never more than 2 at one sitting • I believe that I align with Shintoism more than any other type of religion • I own my mistakes and have no trouble admitting that I am wrong The Bad: • I can be very stubborn • I tend to keep to myself too much • I do not make long term friends easily • I hate house-work of any type • I do not know what love is, nor how to define it • I have difficulty relating to most people • I like gadgets Everything Else: • I am an bit of an Otaku • I am more a cat person (I have 3) than a dog person (allergic) • I have no children, but am still open to the possibility (even though it scares me greatly) • I enjoy Asian cinema a great deal, but usually have to watch the dubbed versions as I cannot read the subtitles fast enough • I enjoy reading a variety of subjects • I do not forgive wrongs done to people I care about • I enjoy building and creating things • I am much more comfortable wearing jeans than a suit (but I do own 2 just in case)


Rudolph is from United States

Rudolph (36)

Good man, looking for a good woma... Rochester, New Hampshire, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

My name is Rudy and I work with kids who have behavior issues and are mentally handicapped. I enjoy going to concerts, reading, hanging out, shooting pool, video games, swimming, and camping. I can be very serious but also know how to have fun.

Clyde is from United States

Clyde (40)

Just Checking Things Out Anchorage, Alaska, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

I am very natural, open minded, taken it easy. I love to be active but i also love to relax. I'm a nut for the great outdoors - camping, rollerblading, snowboarding, hiking, and anything "ing" outside getting fresh air. When I am inside I like to settle down with a good movie, book, and someday someone special =) I love to meet new and different people!! I don't go out to eat much, I like to eat yummy healthy foods and cook for myself and others. But if it would be a night out it would have to be mexican or my favorite chinese*. AND MAKE IT SPICEY SPICEY!! And of course my desire is to see the world. I also have 2 dogs =)

Oscar is from United States

Oscar (30)

A true geek Porterville, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 35 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

Im a student and work in the behavioral health field. I love anime, manga, light novels and japanese rock and pop music. I love music, art, reading, surfing, snowboarding, and cycling. Ive always been told im a gentleman, kind, warm, and caring.


Patrick is from United States

Patrick (39)

Looking for a Guide to Share in D... Akron, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

I am a career and hard working person willing to find that special someone to share my life with. My dream is to travel to Japan and experience all that I can. I know I am a tourist but I want as many in depth experiences as I can get from Anime, I am a gamer and a bit of an Otaku but by far no NEET. I want to see conventions, rituals, festivals, visiting shrines and tourist spots. I want to meet people, go to clubs or restaurants, learn the language and ways of the people I respect more than my own home country. I am a writer and poet as well and I feel that my darkened and sometimes empty soul longs to go to Japan and the Orient and I wish to find my partner and a guide to help me find my way and share in our dreams together.

Eric is from United States

Eric (32)

um, hello there ^_^;; Oceanside, California, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

Well, I am a student, hoping to become a teacher of Primary education in the near future. I love to study mythology and anthropology, and am particularly interested in Japan. I am usually a rather shy person, often passive (but not submissive),

Zach  is from United States

Zach (22)

Hi.. Indianapolis, Indiana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 24 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

I'm a 6.7 feet tall guy that is having trouble finding the right girl. I'm caring, a little shy, will give you so much attention, I love action movies, play video games a little bit, the only romantic movie I love is Secret, and I love Japan and always will. I'm easy to get along with but I can get really defensive if someone wants to hurt the girl I'm with. I'm also the cuddle type of guy.


Gordon is from United States

Gordon (30)

looking to make friends and netwo... Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 33 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

love to travel, meet people all around the world

brenson is from United States

brenson (32)

hi how is everyone doing? Mobile, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 23 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

Well what can i say just your normal hippie. I am in college. In my 3rd year at South Alabama and have a house with my best bud Jarred. What else to say? I love music.


Aaron is from United States

Aaron (32)

Looking for love Newark, Delaware, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

Studied martial arts since I was young. I learn not for the purpose to defend my self but to better protect others because there the type of persons I am. Working on getting back into shape and further my education. Science is another one of my passions.

Will is from United States

Will (37)

Looking for romance . Tulsa, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 35 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

I love japanese culture but I'm not obsessed with it. I don't really speak japanese but I'm willing to learn. I'm also willing to help others practice their English. I'd love to travel to Japan one day.


john is from United States

john (35)

john carpenter big heart Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 36 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

love japan , anime, manga j-pop


Keola is from United States

Keola (32)

Let's talk!! Tacoma, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 30 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

I learned to speak Japanese in school and trying to meet some friends to talk with. Just doing my thing, not knowing whats going to happen next. Trying to make things fun!

Alexander is from United States

Alexander (31)

~Looking for true love~ New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

I am an artist who will like to live in japan soon to sell my work, and build up a company of my own. I'd love to have that special woman by my side while I do so!

Hitoshi is from United States

Hitoshi (21)

私は非常に素晴らしく、半分日本人は私が19愛日本の女性アム Knoxville, Tennessee, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism



tony is from United States

tony (51)

Newly single anyone out ... Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 53 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

After the divorce, is already being independent lives. Who lives and works in Southern Encounter with Japanese women are not registered. divorce has been made each other's feelings after it has cooled down, it is the cause of each other's efforts did not do this, he learned a lesson and I think we have to fit the next person who has a long and I wanted to go.

luke is from United States

luke (30)

looking for a loyal women Port Huron, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 31 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

Im loving careing and love nature

Raul is from United States

Raul (44)

NICE Denver, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 42 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism


hitoshi8 is from United States

hitoshi8 (34)

I just relocated in US. Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: 18 - 50 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism

hi I just relocated in US. living in Arizona. I hope I'll find wonderful friend here!


vahid is from United States

vahid (38)

Hi.. Fremont, California, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 43 for Penpal
Religion: Shintoism


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