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Bruce
43 Daly, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 37
Height: 5'4" (163 cm)
My official titles are Son, Brother and Friend because to me being authentic is honoring our loving relationships with others. I grew up in Daly City, CA in a big Italian family and although I'm 3/4 Italian you wouldn't know it by my last name. But thats OK because I'm down with my Scandinavian roots too! A little viking blood never hurt anyone :) I'm definitely not your typical guy... and thats good I think. My life doesn't revolve around the big professional sporting events and I don't drink beer. I don't like going to loud places where people are intoxicated, obnoxious and you really can't hear your friend talking over the noise. Instead I'm a savor the moment kinda guy and I appreciate a well maintained heathy body (mine and yours) and getting outside in the fresh air. I'm determined to stay healthy, fit and active no matter what age. Being a Libra I have a balanced personality and I pretty much can get along with anyone. I've found that I click really well with Gemini. Many of my very good friends are "Gems". Being a Libra I also appreciate the luxuries of life but I'm not a slave to the "money game". I think some of the best things in life don't cost a penny. I'm not hung up on astrological signs but I've found that to be a strong indicator of personality type and often chemistry in relationships. Some of my favorite things are eating healthy, working out, training the martial arts, enjoying nature and some spurges on sushi & sake or a nice red wine. I love growing plants. I have a ton of miniature fruiting trees and other exotic plants. I think the passion for plants feeds my nurturing personality. Although I love pets I'm allergic to furry friends. I won't engage in a relationship with you if you are tightly bonded with a favorite furry buddy and would have to pick between a human buddy or your best friend. Although, I do love pets and enjoy them immensely. I have a very nice planted fish tank and I have owned birds and reptiles in the past. My family does have a very pretty English Cocker Spaniel, Fanny, but I have to eat antihistamines after petting her. I've been doing martial arts for much of my life. I'm a purple belt in Brazilian Jiu-jitsu and I train jiu-jitsu four days a week. It serves as my cardio for the week. Normally I compete in BJJ tournaments about 6 to 8 times a year. Becoming a BJJ back belt is a very important life goal. I think it would be so awesome to be with a partner that also loves BJJ and shares the same aspirations. We can throw a mat down in the house and train together all the time :) I'm extremely achievement oriented in life and I'm always trying to challenge myself to get to the next level. I think being successful requires commitment and consistency. That applies to maintaining my body as well, I cook all of my meals daily and check the mirror every morning to make sure those washboard abs are still there. I'm currently working on getting into the best shape of my life (competitive bodybuilding form). I would love to do one of those body paint portraits-photos. So yeah for a guy I'm very artistic and expressive. I have a definite affinity for all things Japanese from sushi to jiu-jitsu to the minimalist decor and Japanese tea-gardens. I would love to learn to speak Japanese as well. I think what I find so intriguing about the culture is the dedication to the pursuit of perfection. My overall perspective on life is that I'm hear to bring out the best in others and myself. I'm an Executive Recruiter and I get to help people make transformative changes, granting them access to a career path that makes them happy as much as the work brings them a paycheck. I'm on here because I don't go to bars and I'm not on the popular "dating scenes" nor do I want that. I don't play dating games, I'm simply looking for my best friend and life partner. In the next year or so will be the right time to start a family (1-2 kids). Life is good and getting better every day. I'm a firm believer that great relationships begin with a foundation of friendship.
Charlie
33 Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Height: 5'3" (161 cm)
Although it seems difficult to describe myself with a few paragraphs, I will do my best so that after you finish reading my profile, you feel like you already know a part of me. If you would like to know something else that I haven’t mentioned in the following, please feel free to ask. I am honest, kind and patient. I love to laugh and be silly. If I’m alone and my favorite song comes on, I’ll turn it all the way up and sing as loud as I can (I turn it all the way up so I don’t have to hear my own voice). I like to be crafty and creative (maybe because I am left-handed). I like the outdoors; I am just beginning to get into ultralight backpacking. I also love the indoors; I like reading fantasy novels, cooking, and playing video games (don’t worry, I will always pause the video game if you are talking to me). I come from a loving family so I carry strong family values. I believe I have the best family in the world and I am very lucky. I believe a family should always come first. I have two older sisters that I turn to when I need guidance and one younger brother who is also trying to figure out his own life. As for me, I believe life is about finding happiness in what you already have. We all have reasons to be sad or upset, but we have to focus on the good in our lives that make us happy. What makes me happy? I would say it is my family, music, and good food. J I believe everyone deserves kindness and respect. I will never yell, curse, or raise a hand at the woman I love. I will not stray and I will not lie. It takes a lot to make me angry. The only time I get moody is when I’m hungry (I can’t help it!). I am prior military service. Although I am no longer serving as an enlisted soldier, I work for the military as a civilian. This means I travel often and am away from home a lot. I will continue in this line of work because it pays well and will allow me to save enough to retire someday. I dream to eventually own one house in the U.S. (I currently have a house in California) and one house in the country my future wife is from. Then we could go back and forth and have a place to live. I would like to have two children (I don’t have any right now); a boy and a girl. I haven’t decided whether I want to raise children in the U.S. or in Asia, but it depends on the education system and my family. I would love to spend my time building woodworking projects, making wine, or in a garden. One important note I should mention is I am not religious. I do not follow any religion. With that said, please know that I will always respect your beliefs and give you the time and space to practice your faith. I believe in kindness and respect for all. If this is a deal breaker for you, I apologize that I wrote this last and you already made it this far into my profile. If you are okay with that and think we are well suited for each other, please send me a sincere message and we can go from there. I hope to hear from you.

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