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Steve is from United States

Steve (45)

I am looking for Happily Ever Aft... Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 39 for Friendship

Story Time :-) I would like to tell you my perfect fantasy of how I met my wife, my true love, my soul mate. It begins so long ago. In an imaginary house, on a Leave It To Beaver street, with a white picket fence out front and a perfectly green rolling hill in the back, with the bright green grass waving with the spring breezes. And there I am, in my shorts and t-shirt, big smile on my face as I chase my playmate across the lawn. She is a cute little brunette. We are both around 4 years old - just precious little souls, innocent and sweet. Not a care in the world except play, candy, more play. Fast forward a few years. We still live next door to each other, growing up together, our parents the best of friends. We spend every day together, sharing lunches at school, facing homework and school plays and whatever else 5th grade has for us to experience. We still play and we still love our candy. We are always seen together and we never grow tired of each other’s company as we smile and laugh together all the time. At 10 years old, we are still both so innocent and sweet, but a little more aware of boys and girls. But she is the only girl I see. And she is perfect. Of course she can be a little bratty at times, but so can I. Again we leap to the next chapter, where the teen years are in full bloom. And she is still the only girl I see. My very best friend who has experienced all the same things I have. Eating too much at the neighborhood picnics in the park, the same teachers in school, candy and soda at the local corner cafe, playing sports at the ball park. But of course now, our interests are more than just candy. We still play, but it is different. More mature. More serious. And as I explore my emerging muscles and deeper voice, I try a bad impression of a character we just saw in a movie together. And she laughs hysterically at my mocking version of Jack Nicholson. And as she finishes laughing, our eyes meet and lock. And we just stare into each other's eyes. I notice some eye liner and lip gloss because she has been experimenting too with her girly side. She cares so much more about her hair now, and her clothes. I love what I see. And we continue to look into each other’s eyes, each other's souls. And we know sort of what it is. But we don't say it. We are only 13. What do we know of love? Yet her eyes hypnotize me. Make me feel funny - and wonderful - and innocent - and dirty. It is all very confusing. But perfect. And of course as time passes, we begin exploring these strange feelings. We hold hands for the first time and it is Electric. And we kiss, tentatively, awkwardly. Still so innocent, with our eyes closed tight. We are both still so pure, not wanting to upset the perfect universal balance of our friendship. We are drawing closer to each other day by day, minute by minute. She is becoming my love, my soul. And the bond between us is perfect, having been forged in the heat of adversity and triumph. We have been through so much together. We have been through everything together. And as the course of time continues, we marry and start a family. All the while never doubting our love or our commitment to each other… I am sorry to report that none of that happened. And that is life. And here I am on a website looking for that girl. The one I can feel that perfect connection to. I still want the story to come true. And even though much of life has been lived already, there is still so much more to go. And I believe that perfect bond can still be formed. And when it is, her and I will feel like we have known each other our whole lives. And nothing will be able to separate us or break us apart. We will from that moment forth be connected and united at the very core of our souls. Is that too much to ask for? I would like to think that we are all on this site looking for the same thing. I choose to believe that it is still out there to be found. And it is so worth finding. I hope you agree.


brock is from United States

brock (33)

Looking for that special one :) Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 26 for Friendship

My name is Brock I am 25 currently in college for my bachelors degree. I am looking to get out of the us for good. I have always had my eyes set on Japan since I was a kid and now I think its time to find someone there and go for it. I'm outgoing fu


Chad is from United States

Chad (32)

YO Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 24 for Friendship

I enjoy being with people, but not in large groups. I prefer to be with just a few good friends at a time. I like computers, movies, tv, tennis, snowboarding, swimming, paintballing, hiking, etc. Although I like playing many sports, I don't like playing sports with people who take it too seriously, and I'm not a fan of watching professional sports either. I especially enjoy my quiet time to read, play some video games, or just sit back and watch a movie or tv show. I grew up in Arizona and am currently in Hawaii going to Brigham Young University-Hawaii working on finishing my accounting degree Dec 2011.


Michael is from United States

Michael (30)

Hi.. Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Friendship

Well my name is. I'm 23 years old and I work in the oildfields. Im a hard working man thats an average build and with a good attitude towards life. I'm honest respectful and down to earth. I'm pretty much a good all around guy who likes to be outdoor


Robby is from United States

Robby (31)

Reach out your hand and I shall h... Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25 for Friendship

I enjoy many things. I like just hanging out to traveling and seeking new experiences. I am currently a Senior in college and I am majoring in Psychology. I may get my masters and get my own practice. The reason I want to become a psychologist is so I can help heal people with mental problems. Those same people deserve to live a happier life. I am smart, funny, and very laid back. I have great communication skills and can fix any problem. I love to go to the beach,any chance I get. I lived in Monterrey for many years before moving here. But when I am around in town, bowling, shooting pool and going to the movies is always fun. I love all kinds of food but damn sushi is my favorite. I like all kinds of music. Classic rock is my favorite but I do enjoy other types. However, country is not going to happen sorry. Everyday is short. It is important to get something done but at the end of the day a good laugh is best. I wont lie, when I have a task, I will follow it through. I am serious in building my future career. I want to succeed but I wont let it stop me from kicking back and relaxing with you. *Year of the Rabbit is cooler than being an Aries* I have more "unique" things but you have to message me first. Drop a line if you want to know more!

Kevin is from United States

Kevin (39)

Let's chat Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female for Friendship

I am a big shy man. I have a passion for Japan witch is why I am here. I am studying the written and spoken language of Japan. I love Japanese mythology. I am sorry if I scared some people but I just want to talk and maybe connect with some one who

Joe is from United States

Joe (59)

Prince seeks his Cinderella. Does... Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 50 for Friendship

I have a strong interest in asian culture and various languages. I speak some Mandarin Chinese and a few words of Japanese. I like quiet nights at home, movies, music, sports, occasionally dining out, dancing, and meeting people. My hobbies include K

Ric is from United States

Ric (57)

Retired Warrior seeks hottie to k... Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 29 for Friendship

I am a retired instructor/fighter of the Fianna Organization, currently a shopkeeper in Bakersfield. I really enjoy Renaissance Faires and Highland Games and other Celtic Gatherings. Girls, I may be your daddy's age, but I bet you'll have a better ti

jJULIAN P is from United States

jJULIAN P (68)

Hi Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 52 for Friendship

Hi soy hombre de buen Corazon comprensivo carinoso limpio fiel y leal

Zae is from United States

Zae (25)

Hajimemashite ! Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 20 for Friendship

Hello, my name is Zae. Im a fun out going college student, hoping to find someone just as fun.

James is from United States

James (60)

Hello all you lovely ladies! Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 50 for Friendship

I'm a. Guy looking for a sweet Japanese honey badly.a


Ra is from United States

Ra (40)

Hi! Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 39 for Friendship

I'm single and never married. Both will change

junior is from United States

junior (26)

hi Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 29 for Friendship

I love to work on cars right now I'm saving up money to open my own body shop

George is from United States

George (61)

Hi.. Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 50 for Friendship

Enjoying each day like it is my last. Romantic to my core. Love to talk, but would rather listen. Enjoy the company of good friends.

gus is from United States

gus (43)

the great unknown Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 39 for Friendship



Nowee is from United States

Nowee (44)

lost one Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 41 for Friendship

I'm very outgoing easy going easy to get along with I love the outdoors I love sports love to have fun.


Alex is from United States

Alex (34)

To be continued... Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 33 for Friendship

It's been fun guys, but I am about finished here! If you want to grab a beer or something a make a new friend, feel free to contact me. Take care!

jeffery is from United States

jeffery (29)

I respect women Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Friendship


Skyler is from United States

Skyler (38)

カリフォルニアからのカウボーイ Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 27 for Friendship

I am a cowboy type but a bit of a computer geek too. I love the outdoors, hiking, camping, and hunting. I particularly like the mountains around where I grew up.

David is from United States

David (50)

Single Guy looking for his lifeti... Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 55 for Friendship

I'm a 50 year Man who is loving,caring,and trustworthy.

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