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Steve
47 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 39
Story Time :-) I would like to tell you my perfect fantasy of how I met my wife, my true love, my soul mate. It begins so long ago. In an imaginary house, on a Leave It To Beaver street, with a white picket fence out front and a perfectly green rolling hill in the back, with the bright green grass waving with the spring breezes. And there I am, in my shorts and t-shirt, big smile on my face as I chase my playmate across the lawn. She is a cute little brunette. We are both around 4 years old - just precious little souls, innocent and sweet. Not a care in the world except play, candy, more play. Fast forward a few years. We still live next door to each other, growing up together, our parents the best of friends. We spend every day together, sharing lunches at school, facing homework and school plays and whatever else 5th grade has for us to experience. We still play and we still love our candy. We are always seen together and we never grow tired of each other’s company as we smile and laugh together all the time. At 10 years old, we are still both so innocent and sweet, but a little more aware of boys and girls. But she is the only girl I see. And she is perfect. Of course she can be a little bratty at times, but so can I. Again we leap to the next chapter, where the teen years are in full bloom. And she is still the only girl I see. My very best friend who has experienced all the same things I have. Eating too much at the neighborhood picnics in the park, the same teachers in school, candy and soda at the local corner cafe, playing sports at the ball park. But of course now, our interests are more than just candy. We still play, but it is different. More mature. More serious. And as I explore my emerging muscles and deeper voice, I try a bad impression of a character we just saw in a movie together. And she laughs hysterically at my mocking version of Jack Nicholson. And as she finishes laughing, our eyes meet and lock. And we just stare into each other's eyes. I notice some eye liner and lip gloss because she has been experimenting too with her girly side. She cares so much more about her hair now, and her clothes. I love what I see. And we continue to look into each other’s eyes, each other's souls. And we know sort of what it is. But we don't say it. We are only 13. What do we know of love? Yet her eyes hypnotize me. Make me feel funny - and wonderful - and innocent - and dirty. It is all very confusing. But perfect. And of course as time passes, we begin exploring these strange feelings. We hold hands for the first time and it is Electric. And we kiss, tentatively, awkwardly. Still so innocent, with our eyes closed tight. We are both still so pure, not wanting to upset the perfect universal balance of our friendship. We are drawing closer to each other day by day, minute by minute. She is becoming my love, my soul. And the bond between us is perfect, having been forged in the heat of adversity and triumph. We have been through so much together. We have been through everything together. And as the course of time continues, we marry and start a family. All the while never doubting our love or our commitment to each other… I am sorry to report that none of that happened. And that is life. And here I am on a website looking for that girl. The one I can feel that perfect connection to. I still want the story to come true. And even though much of life has been lived already, there is still so much more to go. And I believe that perfect bond can still be formed. And when it is, her and I will feel like we have known each other our whole lives. And nothing will be able to separate us or break us apart. We will from that moment forth be connected and united at the very core of our souls. Is that too much to ask for? I would like to think that we are all on this site looking for the same thing. I choose to believe that it is still out there to be found. And it is so worth finding. I hope you agree.
jJULIAN P
69 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 52
Zae
27 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 20
James
62 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 50
Ra
42 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 39
junior
28 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 29
gus
45 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 39
Nowee
46 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 41
jeffery
31 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
David
52 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 55
oscar
41 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 36
Jamie
44 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Shawn
31 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Franklyn
30 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 50
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23 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 19
Oscar
30 Bakersfield, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30

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